Wednesday, December 8, 2010

i want to teach my husband in bed,i want to coach my love in bed




Yes, you absolutely love the man in your life and don't want to change him too much. But, let's be honest, wouldn't you want to change something about the way he works in the bedroom? Maybe you want to try newer moves, you want it faster/ slower, dirtier, quiter/louder? Here's how you can get your man to improve his technique without hurting his feelings!

Play guide

You need to guide your man. But make the feedback sexy, not critical! If he's doing something you like, let him know and try to subtly avoid moves you don't like. Like if he's sticking his tongue in your ear and you don't like it, subtly distract him by turning your head so your mouths meet, and moan with pleasure. This will definitely provide the needed distraction and he will realise you like that better!

Prolong your foreplay
That's the best way to help synchronise your passion levels. Longer foreplay is much better for men, as they can control their ejaculation much better, train your guy to improve his staying power at least 15 minutes and you are more likely to have a better, hotter session.

Positive connections
Try to make your man more connected to your love making by brainwashing him in to specific moves. For example, check out your body to find your specific erogenous zones and guide him towards them. Tell him how you feel when he touches you there.

Praise him when he does something you want and you are ensured a repeat performance. Don't make your guy feel like that he's doing something wrong or he'll go on the defensive!

Explore new positions
Keeping your sex life a little adventurous is good in helping your man learn new moves. If you initiate new positions, he's reassured that you'd like to do something new and he will be more than happy to do different things in an attempt to please you.
You owe it to yourself to try and improve your sex life with these tips and always remember that practice makes perfect!

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