Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Excuses Men Make After Cheating how does men do after cheating woman men and cheating how men cheat on woman 7 Lame Excuses Men Make After Cheating



 




Cheating is undoubtedly the easiest and quickest way to destroy a marriage. And when a man is caught cheating, more often than not, he piles on excuses to justify the act. We list some lame excuses that men use to explain their excessive romping and you get to decide if they stick or not.

1. He says: My marriage made me do this!

Is your man blaming your and your marriage for his infidelity?! An affair is not the way to fix the problems in the marriage. Deal with the problems and solve them, don’t be a coward and create another problem. Talk to him provided you still want to live with the cheating jerk!

2. He says: I just can't say no!

Is your man that much of a fool that he can’t resist the advances of another woman? Does he take you to be stupid? If you can avoid distractions, he should be able to do it too. It’s that simple. It also means he’s weak and he might get weak again.  Frankly, you’re better off without this type of man.

3. He says: I didn’t want to say no!

This one is really bad! Unlike the other choices where he did it instinctively and in moments of weakness; here he actually thought about it, considered the pros and cons and then took a conscious decision to go for it. If he’s really worth it, you need a lot of work to deal with any issues with this guy.

4. He says:
 I am not in love any more!
In any relationship there are always a few days of being hot and heavy, but that settles down into complacency and adjustment. Many people confuse that complacency or trust as lack of love. Your man has to understand that as the relationship evolves, it changes and matures. That’s the way it has been and will always be.

5. He said: She did it, so I did it too!

Well, if she jumped into the well would you do it too?! This is really petty and many people do this and it hurts the relationship beyond repair.

6. He says:
 I needed to know that I’ve still got it!
Horrible excuse of poor self esteem! It should be enough that he has a pretty, independent woman who is with him but that does not seem to be enough for him!

7. He says:
 I just wanted to have a person who cares for me!
He searching for love outside the marriage which means there is a problem with your intimacy. Deal with him by talking it over.

You do need to find the root cause of what is causing your man to migrate else where. If you want him; fight for him or just stop the heartache by dumping the cheating jerk
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