So you are ready to take the plunge but haven’t found Mr Right yet! If you are wondering how to go about looking for the right guy then first and foremost make yourself ‘available’. How to do that? Well, by simply creating an interesting matrimonial profile that allows people to see you through your eyes. If you want the right people to visit your profile and approach you for a little chat, then follow these simple guidelines to get started for the big day
Go for a latest photo: The first impression counts, so take extreme care while posting your photo on a matrimonial website. Stay away from uploading passport-size photos that you may have previously used for your driving license or office ID. Spend a few bucks and get yourself clicked because the idea is to get viewed by the eligible men out there! You definitely do not want to give any wrong impressions because suitors determine your personality after looking at your profile photo. And don’t forget to smile!
Be specific with your details: Make sure the information that you provide is specific and complete. Avoid exaggeration, unnecessary and lengthy information that is only going to confuse potential grooms. At the same time, focus on writing about yourself rather than your entire family. Also keep in mind that honesty plays a key role here especially if the suitor likes your profile and wants to meet you in person. You wouldn’t want to initiate a new relationship based on false information
Check for grammar: How would you react if someone made the silliest mistakes with spellings and grammar on his profile? Not everyone has great writing skills and therefore there is no harm in getting your profile checked. As much as you’d prefer writing your own bio, doesn’t mean you cannot take the help of your friend in creating one. Ask him or her to go through what you’ve written thoroughly. And with Microsoft Word your task becomes easier as you can run a spell check in the end!
Become a paid member: It is perfectly fine to try your luck without paying a penny on matrimonial websites. But the question is for how long! Upgrade yourself as a premium member by paying a few bucks for a faster response. Moreover, it also gives you access to personal information like the mobile number of the profile visitor which may allow you to contact the person directly.
Follow the format: You may not be a great organiser, but managing your profile by posting the right details under appropriate sections can go a long way in finding the correct match for yourself. For example, avoid assembling all kinds of information related to family, occupation, hobbies and preferences in one paragraph. The website you have signed up for will consist of separate heads or categories under which you’ll be asked to fill in your details. This simply allows visitors to search or filter as per their requirement.
Be regular: Try logging into your profile as often as possible. There is no other way to find out whether your profile got views and if so, who visited it and showed interest. Sign in at least twice a day, maybe once during your lunch hour and in the night before going to bed. Don’t make it a weekend activity, because you wouldn’t want to miss out on daily visitors who may have been interested in you, but couldn't proceed since you were irregular!
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