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	How to Talk Dirty in Bed Even to the most sexually expressive in bed, talking dirty is often considered... well, downright...

Even to the most sexually expressive in bed, talking dirty is often considered... well, downright dirty. Give your partner a pleasant surprise in the bedroom with some not-so-sweet nothings. It will put back the spark in your relationship, and in you. Here’s how:

1. Start small: It’s a little difficult to start the dirty talk when you’ve gotten along under the sheets just fine minus the verbal nasties. So don’t scream out hardcore lines that involve slang names for body parts. It will sound artificial (even to your ears) and could have the absolute opposite effective. Give these a try: “I’ve been so naughty today; punish me!” and “Will you be my sex toy tonight?”

2. Build it up: If you’re too wary of talking dirty the first time, a warm-up session could help. Start with a sext (sex text, for the uninitiated) or send him a raunchy pic of yourself via MMS. When he enters home/the bedroom (depending on how much privacy you enjoy at home), start reading out some erotica to him. Catch him unawares and he’ll be hooked. In fact, with time, sexual-literature oriented can even pen their own erotica with their partner as the protagonist and their deep desires as the plotline! Mail it to him when he’s at work; great sex awaits you at night.

3. Use adjectives: Describe the way you’re feeling, the way you’re partner’s turning you on, what you’d like him to do to you, what you’d like to do to him...

4. Ask questions: Can I touch you there? Touch you deep inside...? Do you like it like that? Would you want me to continue? Yes? No?

5. Tune it: If music be the music of love, play on players. Create an atmosphere with dim lights, scented candles, a steamy shower and... songs that will make you want to melt into each other. Good ol’ Enigma or tracks such as Natural Woman (Aretha Franklin), Wicked Game (Chris Isaak), Sexual Healing (Marvin Gaye), Underneath your Clothes (Shakira), Promiscuous Girl (Nelly Furtado), I’m a Slave for You (Britney Spears) or Hindi numbers like Roop Tera Mastana (Aradhana), Jadoo Hai Nasha Hai (Jism), Tip Tip Barsa Pani (Mohra) or Bheege Honth (Murder) — . whatever works for you.

6. Play board games: With a twist. For example, if it’s Snakes & Ladders, treat your bodies like the board and go up/down accordingly. May the best player win!