Getting your life back on track after a divorce is a tough task. Thankfully, you are now well past that and have finally mustered the courage to start dating again. The guy you are with seems nice and loving. But you haven’t taken the relationship to the next level. We mean sex. Here’s how to get back in the sack after a divorce.
Take one step at a time: If you are now comfortable with kissing, cuddling and holding hands, take things further, slowly. Get a li’l touchy-feely, frisky when you have some private time together. Try discovering erogenous zones other than the obvious ones.
Talk about it: Getting physically intimate after a long time can feel like the first time. So talk to your partner about any issues you may have either about your body image, or lack of sex in your first marriage; he will surely understand and help you get there.
Get comfortable with your body: Workout regularly, eat healthy, shop for new lingerie and clothes. It will definitely give a boost to your body image. Feeling good about yourself will put you in the mood for some action.
Explore a bit yourself: We mean indulge in a bit of solo pleasure. Get whatever it takes; erotic books, magazines, steamy DVDs or pure imagination to get your engine going. It will give you a peek at what the real thing is like.
Make sure the time is right: Make sure you are well into six months of dating this new guy before you go to bed with him. You don’t want it to end up being a rebound nor do you want it to get complicated if you weren’t emotionally ready for it.
Set the mood: What turns you on? A slow romantic dance, a candlelight dinner, a walk on the beach under the moonlight- just tell your partner about it and we’re sure he’ll gladly oblige.
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