what are the Male Fetishes What does my man need and fantasise about

What does your man need and fantasise about? How prevalent is a sexual fetish, which might be described as a fixation on a body part or a concept, among Indian men?
. "There are things such as a particular position or a part of the body which are very important to someone. There are other things, such as threesomes, which many couples tell me about, but only as fantasy. Few of them, and perhaps none, actually go through with the act." Here are some of the most common male fetishes:

Anal sex: All men want this; few will ask. If they do, it will be obliquely and shamefacedly. "I've almost never slept with a woman without wanting her to turn for me," says Ganesan, a manager in a reputed firm. Remember: this is not about pleasure; it's about possession. Give in once even if you don't enjoy it. After that, you can always claim pain - 'you're too big' will do it, and will make him your slave! Please note that anal sex is forbidden under the Indian law. Surprised a threesome doesn't feature in our list of things that Indian men obsess about in the bedroom - and outside of it? Sociologist Madhav Gadgil explains it's because we are a conservative culture. "Not in the bedroom but outside of it. We are not a society of strangers, and we're always worried about what people might think of us if they find out," he says.

Oral sex: Men love to get, hate to give. You can only hope that you snare someone who enjoys burying himself. But continue to give. If that sounds unfair, refer to the point above. Remember what they say: it's always better to give than to receive. A man wrote that. 

 

 

 

 

Submission: Most men in India do not understand role-play. Put down that copy of Cosmo; it doesn't mean anything. Women are expected to be craven in our society, including in bed. Yes, it's quite repulsive but there it is. 

 

 

 

Buns: These are akin to breasts. They look great, but, er, what's one to do with them? It's puzzling. While their utility is doubtful, all men insist they be shapely. It's not about size though. Few men will like a large rump. 

 

Breasts: They are fantastic to look at under a shirt. Even better in just a bra! "They define a woman," says Kartik Ganesan, 37, a chartered accountant, "and they're what my eyes turn to when a woman is naked before me."