Bored of the same routine that you and your partner follow in the bedroom? Here are some spicy ideas that you can indulge in to keep your sex life rocking.
Role Play: If it turns him/her on, on the screen, imagine how much more effective it will be in real life. Think up which is your partner's favourite movie love scene and surprise them by recreating it in your bedroom. You don't necessarily have to get each and every detail right, instead work on your own look.
Hands-Free: It's quite amazing how a simple touch can indeed arouse your partner. But instead of using your hands, like you always do, try to arouse him/her by using some other body part. Tell your partner it's a hands-free night and be as innovative as you can, you'll be surprised at how much he/she will love it.
Talk the deed : There's a reason why phone sex is so popular, words can indeed be an instant turn on. Ask your partner what s/he's wearing and describe, as sexily as you can, what you are wearing and then, talk about how you'd like to undress him/her. Tell him/her about your secret fantasy and get them to tell you theirs and then discuss how you could indulge in it while in the bedroom.
Set it up: Put out those harsh, artificial lights and opt for some scented candles, scatter petals of roses all over the bed and whatever else you know will work to make the night even more interesting. Yes, this is where you need to do the settings for those fantasies that you and your partner have discussed. For that element of surprise, lead your partner into the bedroom with his/her eyes covered.
The surprise factor: Nothing works better to work up the passion than leading him/her on. Leave a note on the TV remote that says 'Turn me on instead'. Leave directions, in the form of pieces of your clothing from the front door to your bedroom. Let him/her find you laying seductively on the bed and enjoy the action that follows.
Role Play: If it turns him/her on, on the screen, imagine how much more effective it will be in real life. Think up which is your partner's favourite movie love scene and surprise them by recreating it in your bedroom. You don't necessarily have to get each and every detail right, instead work on your own look.
Hands-Free: It's quite amazing how a simple touch can indeed arouse your partner. But instead of using your hands, like you always do, try to arouse him/her by using some other body part. Tell your partner it's a hands-free night and be as innovative as you can, you'll be surprised at how much he/she will love it.
Talk the deed : There's a reason why phone sex is so popular, words can indeed be an instant turn on. Ask your partner what s/he's wearing and describe, as sexily as you can, what you are wearing and then, talk about how you'd like to undress him/her. Tell him/her about your secret fantasy and get them to tell you theirs and then discuss how you could indulge in it while in the bedroom.
Set it up: Put out those harsh, artificial lights and opt for some scented candles, scatter petals of roses all over the bed and whatever else you know will work to make the night even more interesting. Yes, this is where you need to do the settings for those fantasies that you and your partner have discussed. For that element of surprise, lead your partner into the bedroom with his/her eyes covered.
The surprise factor: Nothing works better to work up the passion than leading him/her on. Leave a note on the TV remote that says 'Turn me on instead'. Leave directions, in the form of pieces of your clothing from the front door to your bedroom. Let him/her find you laying seductively on the bed and enjoy the action that follows.
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