this one's exclusively for our male readers. But ladies, it's got more than enough of hints you can make note of and, put to use. For starters, flirting is defined as 'to court triflingly without serious intentions, play at love'. And guys, if you're wondering why we are defining flirting for you, it's because we are going to tell you what are those sure shot signs to tell that the lady is flirting with you, or to put it in street lingo, hitting on you. Opportunity never knocks twice and missing the obvious signs is not at all a good idea. So read on to know what you just cannot afford to miss. And mind it, we, quite literally, have the dope straight from the horse's mouth.
Playing with her hair
"If she moves her hand through her hair repeatedly or twirls the strands into a lock and lets it absent-mindedly fall across her face, it's a sure shot sign that she's flirting," says Stanley Martins, a project manager with an MNC. This incidentally was the one sign that every man we asked told us.
Laugh riot
According to actor Sudhanshu Pandey, if a girl laughs at almost everything you are saying, even though it may not be funny, it could mean just two things. "Either she has a bad sense of humour or she is flirting with you. I'd like to believe it's the latter," he adds.
Eye spy
How she makes eye contact is a dead give away of whether the lady is flirting or not. "She will remain focussed on you no matter who else is around. Also, she will make all efforts to be a part of your group or sit at your table so that you are aware of her presence," says Shreedhar Kabra, marketing manager of a pharmaceutical firm.
Damsel in distress act
"If she's always looking for opportunities to enlist your help on some task or the other, no matter how trivial they are, it means she's interested in you. When she wants to flirt, she will take every possible chance to touch you or hold your hand and will pout if you don't respond," says businessman Kishore Butani.
Get closer baby
According to musician Kieran Athaide, a girl who is flirting will not miss any opportunity to get physically as close to you as possible. "Even when you're in a large group, she'll take the seat next to or right opposite you. She'll even attempt to get close to you in the virtual world, over chat," he says.
Decking up for you
How many times have you been out on a date and the girl you are with excuses herself at regular intervals to 'freshen up'. And everytime she comes out, you'll notice fresh makeup or that her hair has been rearranged. "This means she is going out of her way to get you to notice her," says Ravi Kamath, a graphic designer.
She makes a lot of hand gestures
"She'll move her hands a lot during the conversation. There will be gestures for each and everything, even if it's not necessary. This is her way of drawing your attention towards her. And if you comment on her nail colour or some hand jewellery she is wearing, she'll blush," says Marino Fernandes who works with an IT firm.
Leggy affairs
"If a woman is flirting with you, she will rub her legs against yours. That of course is apart from every opportunity for physical contact — like touching your hand, or smoothing out your hair, or straightening out a non existant crease on you shirt,"
Playing with her hair
"If she moves her hand through her hair repeatedly or twirls the strands into a lock and lets it absent-mindedly fall across her face, it's a sure shot sign that she's flirting," says Stanley Martins, a project manager with an MNC. This incidentally was the one sign that every man we asked told us.
Laugh riot
According to actor Sudhanshu Pandey, if a girl laughs at almost everything you are saying, even though it may not be funny, it could mean just two things. "Either she has a bad sense of humour or she is flirting with you. I'd like to believe it's the latter," he adds.
Eye spy
How she makes eye contact is a dead give away of whether the lady is flirting or not. "She will remain focussed on you no matter who else is around. Also, she will make all efforts to be a part of your group or sit at your table so that you are aware of her presence," says Shreedhar Kabra, marketing manager of a pharmaceutical firm.
Damsel in distress act
"If she's always looking for opportunities to enlist your help on some task or the other, no matter how trivial they are, it means she's interested in you. When she wants to flirt, she will take every possible chance to touch you or hold your hand and will pout if you don't respond," says businessman Kishore Butani.
Get closer baby
According to musician Kieran Athaide, a girl who is flirting will not miss any opportunity to get physically as close to you as possible. "Even when you're in a large group, she'll take the seat next to or right opposite you. She'll even attempt to get close to you in the virtual world, over chat," he says.
Decking up for you
How many times have you been out on a date and the girl you are with excuses herself at regular intervals to 'freshen up'. And everytime she comes out, you'll notice fresh makeup or that her hair has been rearranged. "This means she is going out of her way to get you to notice her," says Ravi Kamath, a graphic designer.
She makes a lot of hand gestures
"She'll move her hands a lot during the conversation. There will be gestures for each and everything, even if it's not necessary. This is her way of drawing your attention towards her. And if you comment on her nail colour or some hand jewellery she is wearing, she'll blush," says Marino Fernandes who works with an IT firm.
Leggy affairs
"If a woman is flirting with you, she will rub her legs against yours. That of course is apart from every opportunity for physical contact — like touching your hand, or smoothing out your hair, or straightening out a non existant crease on you shirt,"
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